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When Disaster Strikes

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

When disaster strikes

I attended an emergency meeting at the Philippine Embassy last 28th September to discuss matters relating to the Tropical Storm Ondoy.

I am so glad to have met again with old personal friends like Malcolm, Ate Adel, Ogie, Sherwin, and Archie. We had a good chat about a lot of things. It also seems like Ate Adel and my own personal feelings about the government is still the same.

As an embassy led emergency meeting, all consuls and diplomats were present. The meeting started with an updated information lifted from the NDCC website. The numbers are impressive but sadly it means nothing to those directly and indirectly affected by the calamity. While the figures are a very good psychological motivation for others to help, it also plays on the sympathy game. Do not take me wrong. Statistics are very useful to help rope_philippinesprepare and learn from mistakes.

The meetings progressed to the main issue of how we can all help. It is evident that any help will be invaluable, in-kind or monetary. There were very good suggestions about how this can be effected and materialized but from the discussions, I cannot help but notice that the Consulate took a background stance with regards to the actual mobilization of relief. While they initially spearheaded the meeting, it is ironic for them to simply instruct all those present to direct all donations to the NDCC, PNRC or DSWD directly. They could have not called this meeting and instead emailed everybody to simply tell us to direct all relief efforts to Manila.

Various valid points were raised such as drop off points for goods and relief. Let us remember that the more than 200,000 Filipinos (and friends) are scattered all over the UK. The embassy finally agreed to centralize donation and relief collection points at the Philippine Embassy in Suffolk Street, London. So this means that if you live in Liverpool and would want to donate something, you can either travel all the way to London to deliver your donations or send it by post. While a centralized relief point is desirable, it is impossible and deters the main purpose of donation and relief. From a donor’s point of view, the simpliest and easiest way to donate is desirable. The more difficult or complex donating involves, the lesser the urge to donate develops. Well-known respected Filipino groups and organizations including established Filipino businesses volunteered to use their local base for donation centres. This is perfectly ok and do-able. However this opens the donating and relief operations to a whole new series of irregularities. The suggestion of one of the community leaders to get authorization from the Embassy to identify various local collection base and donation centres is a very sensible and more controlled option. However as before, the embassy emphasizes that it cannot do so as they are not allowed to specifically endorse or deputize any individual or group for this matter. It is perfectly understood why they cannot do so and there is no question about it. Their hands are tied by political correctness and protocols even during these trying times. The key to successfully organizing the local drop-off points was unintentionally shared by the group who wanted to get authorization from the embassy to become drop-off points in their local region. The group purported that they are a charity group and will be an ideal drop-off point should the Embassy authorize them. It was made clear to them that having said that they are a charity, they do not need the authorization of the Embassy and can just use their charity registration to effect a donation and relief centre. When told that their charity number in itself is an authorization, they said that they do not have a charity number. The truth then came out that they are not a UK REGISTERED CHARITY but a self-declared charity. 
Organizations registered with the UK Charities Commission are bound by certain legal governing documents and are publicly accountable. In these trying and difficult times, it does not cost a lot to do a little bit of background check and to learn more about the nature or conflict of interests of the groups or organizations that you are donating to. Donating to national organizations such as the NDCC, PNRC or DSWD or to charity but more trustworthy specific charities all depends on the individual preferences of the donor. Let us keep in mind that national relief centres pool their resources and distribute it to areas most needed according to what their statistic show. Charity specific organizations that are regulated by an external body (such as the UK Charity Commission) are recipient-specific and are generally more-trustworthy due to the less conflict of interest involved. Their accounts are also easily accessible compared to national bodies. Donors are more likely to see clear evidence of their donations given to charity organizations than to the national treasury.

Donations in-kind or monetary remain to the discretion of the donor. Our physical distance from the area of the calamity further makes donating a problem in this sense. While charity organizations can indeed collect, pack and ship physical donations of goods, it will take at least 7-weeks for these relief goods to reach the point of destination. In disaster cycle, this period will be categorized as the start of the rehabilitation or recovery period, wherein the victims will have started to focus on regaining normalcy in their life to the pre-calamity state. By this time, any immediate acute and emergency needs would have been dealt with by response teams. The recovery stage lasts for months or years after the calamity.

Being involved in charity work for years, donors intentions are simply to help. This is a normal and sensible action for anybody who witnesses any calamity and feels for the victims. Donors are however much more likely to be satisfied not only for having donated to the cause but if they are able to see the direct effects and evidence of their donations. In this sense, a more trustworthy relationship between the donor and charity organization evolves leaving a wider base of charity work.

The donation and relief consultation meeting ended with a lot of practical, sensible and great ideas but with a complete lack of agreed coordination and organized structure from the Filipino Community of which I was expecting the Philippine Embassy to spearhead. I strongly felt that different organizations and associations, to include business entrepreneurs and other individuals will now try to do their self-less part of helping our kababayans affected by the calamity. While the end aim is to ultimately generate assistance to those affected by the calamity, I wish to thank all those who have generously spared a penny or a shilling for our kababayans. I just do hope that the honest intent of simply being able to help will not be used as a selfish shadow by some. While nobody or no organization is perfect, hats off to the Philippine Embassy for bringing the issue upfront and for starting a series of events for the sake of our countrymen who needs us now more than ever.

The list of Filipino UK Registered Charity Associations (as listed in the UK Charity Commission website) are:

PHILIPPINE AID FOUNDATION OF THE UNITED KINGDOM 
PHILIPPINE CENTRE (TAGPUANG PILIPINO)  
PHILIPPINE LANGUAGES INSTITUTE 
PHILIPPINE NURSES ASSOCIATION OF UNITED KINGDOM  
PHILIPPINE OUTREACH CENTRE MINISTRIES
PHILIPPINE SCHOOL AID   
THE PHILIPPINE COMMUNITY FUND 
THE PHILIPPINE FERRY DISASTER FUND  
FILIPINO INTERNATIONAL CHRISTIAN FELLOWSHIP (FICF) 
FILIPINO INTERNATIONAL EMERGENCY SERVICES TRAINING ASSOCIATION 
THE CATHOLIC CHAPLAINCY FOR FILIPINOS IN THE UNITED KINGDOM 

Donors are strongly encouraged to study the charity group thoroughly for their past charity works, their trustees, their accounts and their connections with the Philippines for charity work.

Fiesta 2009

Monday, July 20th, 2009

The 25th Barrio Fiesta sa Hounslow 2009 is finally over. The BF 2009 is the Philippine Centre’s main charity fund raising event to further its goals, objectives and aims.  More information can be found at the Philippine Centre’s website at www.philippinecentre.com.

Due to some late decision-making from this year’s appointed organizer and after some deep-thoughts and weighing its pros and cons, we have decided not to join the fiesta.

25th Barrio Fiesta sa London_optimizedFirst, the organizer did not finalize the Health and Safety of the Fiesta in due time. It was sorted out on the last minute had it not been for our constant bickering and questioning. To try to help in the health and safety, we announced the need for volunteers for the fiesta within our group. But the very late nature of the announcement did not do any good. As everybody knows, schedules are made 4-weeks in advance and it is now too late to plan for any volunteering activities. Some of the replies we got further say that they can’t get any day off, they have already made plans for the weekend with family and friends, they have volunteered with other groups and some even stated that they are not getting anything in return for the service. Add to this factor the fact that the organizers want the volunteers to submit a copy of their professional license and certificate of qualification. Overkill is what I can say.

Feedback was given to the organizers about these comments and concerns. However, the organizer stung the volunteers with a sarcastic reply saying that the need for stewards and first aid volunteers have been sorted out and how un-Filipino for them to ask for something in return when the fiesta has been giving them entertainment for a good number of years. Well here is our reply to the organizers: “Kaya mo pala kumuha ng first aid and stewards eh…sila na lang and if you do not know, the association has been providing volunteers for the fiesta for the last five-years and all without any burden on the organizer’s part.” We have been providing steward and first aid volunteers with the group providing everything from band-aids to full safety gear and vital food for the volunteers. Now tell me if we have not been giving back to the community.

While we could have persisted to have our presence in the fiesta with the full support of the Philippine Centre, we decided to stay away to avoid any conflict and issues in the future. Most nurses also decided to work on these days instead of spending a day or two at the fiesta only to be insulted.

Being in the fiesta this year as a fiesta-goer and not as an organizer or a stall-holder is a completely different feeling. We were more relaxed and had more time to enjoy the food and the company of others. However as a community leader, stall holders and the general public continued to approach me and voice out their concerns and issues which I conservatively passed on to the appropriate persons or groups concerned.

Indeed according to one of people who approached me on that day, the fiesta is a community event and should be enjoyed by everybody. Personal and business interests should be set aside for the benefit of the greater majority. This includes being flexible and pro-active to the capabilities and needs of both the fiesta goers and those providing a service in the fiesta. While different businesses are managed on different levels and have varying degrees of capability, they should not be denied the opportunity to participate in the fiesta just because they cannot afford the fiesta rates or even commit to a future business venture with the organizer’s own conflict of interests.

I Love this Doctor

Friday, June 19th, 2009

I love this Doctor

Q: Doctor, I’ve heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life. Is this true?
A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that’s it… don’t waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that’s like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.

Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.

Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, which means they take the water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Bottoms up!

Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?
A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.

Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?
A: Can’t think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain…Good!

Q: Aren’t fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU’RE NOT LISTENING!!! ….. Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they’re permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?

Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.

Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO Cocoa beans! Another vegetable!!! It’s the best feel-good food around!

Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me.

Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?
A: Hey! ‘Round’ is a shape!

Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.

And remember: ‘Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways – Chardonnay in one hand – chocolate in the other – body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming ‘WOO HOO, What a Ride’

AND…..

For those of you who watch what you eat, here’s the final word on nutrition and health. It’s a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.

1. The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

3. The Chinese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

5. The Germans drink a lot of beers and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION

Eat and drink what you like.

Speaking English is apparently what kills you.

Cautious but Careless

Sunday, May 31st, 2009

I am here on my spouse’s visa, hence a dependent visa. I am free to work without any restrictions except my own personal limitations and capabilities.

 

I presented myself to a nursing home about 30-minutes away from where we live. The nursing home is located in a quiet estate near the town centre. Cautiously getting off the local bus, I consulted my trusted GPS phone for directions. From the bus stop, I walked further forward-turning left at the round-about. A wide neatly manicured lawn opened on my right side beyond the low-lying fence made of vertical steel. Further beyond the greens, about five conservatories dotted the edge of the lawn. This must be it, I told myself.

 

Further up the road, I saw the familiar blue-white health service billboard. I quickly crossed the road and entered the home’s property. Numerous bungalows lined the main private street fronted by well kept gardens and flower-beds. I walked further to the main bungalow identified by a huge sign made of copper – RECEPTION.

 

I entered the double doors into the foyer and through another set of doors where a large office table sat on the right of the door. A small enclosed room on the left opposite the table, three settees, a bookshelf and other office furniture completed the office atmosphere. I introduced myself to the receptionist.

 

I was handed the application form and sat myself in one of the settees to complete the form. I flipped through my own personal documents while the receptionist conveniently ignored me.

 

A long hallway fronted me and a door on my left side occasionally distracted me from completing the form as people passed by regularly. A small chiwawa came running out from one of the rooms in the hallway and played madly with its little squeaky toy.

 

Three-quarters through the form, a female staff came out of the door on my left and greeted me.

 

“Hello. Pinoy?” she asked with a wide grin on her angelic face.

“Uhu.!” I said surprised.

 

The female introduced herself as Hazel and a staff of the home for just over a year.

they are not allowed to work more than 20-hours a week
She is a healthcare assistant and is on a training course today. We gingerly talked about how work is on this place, how many other Filipino staff are working here, and a few other stuff.  In a low and barely audible conversational tone, she reminded me not to forget to secure a work-placement letter from the college. Confused and puzzled, I asked her what her visa status is. She said that her right to stay in the country is through a student visa. She further added that as a student, they are not allowed to work more than 20-hours a week unless a letter from the college authorizes them to do so. With a work-placement letter from the college, she emphasized that they can work up to 40-hours a week. I asked her how it is possible for her to attend college and do 40-hours a week work. She said that at most, they only attend college (WSC) twice a month. Possibly noticing my surprised expression, she asked me what my visa status is. I then told her that I have a dependent spouse’s visa and therefore not limited to any restrictions. This revelation made her dumb-founded for a while. A few minutes later she then wished me luck in the application and excused herself to have lunch.

 

In hind-sight, I am surprised how people will expose themselves simply to further encourage others to join their cause without any caution and due regard to the existing law. Being a stranger and an immigrant in any place should put us all in a heightened state of care and doubt unless proven otherwise. Had I been an immigration officer, Hazel and her other colleagues will be on a plane home as of this writing. But as I am not, I simply learned from it, walked home with a new found perception and something to write in this blog.

Hayden, Katrina & Me: A threesome

Monday, May 25th, 2009

Makiki-saw-saw ako sa issue ni Hayden Kho for my own personal piece of thoughts.

 

I was watching TVP (25th May 2009) and can’t help but listen to Mrs Irene Kho’s statement about his son because my wife insisted on watching it.

 

She enumerated and gave litany about her son’s good background and behaviour from early childhood. She encouraged the public to ask family friends about their good and religious characters. She also cited the presence of years-old statue in the family home and a wooden cross which she normally has in her person. She then emphasized that what she is saying on national TV is the truth with respect to these religious icons. She said that she does not want to say or reveal anything more. She also emphasized that her son is innocent and can never do such thing. She also expressed her discontent for two other personalities for having involved her.

 

 

TVP anchor Karen Davila tried to ask her questions to which the matriarch kept on talking. After a few attempts to intervene and moderate, the anchor managed to ask her the question of why she is not happy with the two other personalities and what they have done to her. In reply, Irene Kho answered the question by reading a passage from the Bible. The anchor then re-phrased the question and in effect technically asked the same question. Mrs. Kho repeated her earlier statement about her family and her son’s good character and behaviour and again said that she does not want to say anything. The anchor’s question remain unanswered thereby the anchor again tried to re-phrase the question to elicit an answer from Mrs. Kho. The same manner of elusive answering followed by a litany of good behaviour and finger pointing followed from Mrs. Kho.

 

At this point my wife then commented loudly about “why is she on TV then if she does not want to say anything?” I then expressed my thoughts on the preceding conversation. Firstly, my wife is perfectly correct in her statement about why is she on national TV if she does not want to say anything. Does she only want to see herself on the tube or to showcase her cosmetic result? Well i guess anybody will do or say anything to have their 60-seconds of fame. Second point in case, why involve the religious in this case. The fact that a 300-year old statue and a similar wooden cross in her person does not alter the facts and the reality of Hayden’s actions. Reading from the Bible also does not answer a question that needs a direct response. I do believe that the question asked is simple and even a HS student will be able to answer. Come to think of it, she might not have understood the question at all, hence the Bible answer. Third case in point, as a parent myself I do feel her maternal feelings. Parents always look at children’s good points and psychologically shuns negative or bad points. This is a parental instinct. As the saying goes, children are parents’ own flesh and blood; hence an instinct exists to protect your own flesh and blood. Fourth case in point, a person’s childhood and developmental good upbringing is not a guarantee that the person will be a good and exemplary citizen in adulthood. Profiles of most felons are indeed related to their past (i.e. childhood, early adulthood) experiences, however this is not a completely reliable factor. Fifth case in point, Irene Kho finally revealed the tip of the ice-berg that in the whole scandal, her son Hayden is the victim of certain powers that be. In her own words, the (scandal) is “scripted”. Absolutely hilarious and grand-standing is my initial reaction. The evidence is clearly out in the public. Katrina should then win the best actress award and the scandal should earn the best picture and best cinematography for its realistic portrayal of the scandal. The SFX guy should also be credited for the scandal’s life-like special effects. Saying that this scandal is a scripted documentary with Hayden as the unknowing actor is completely absurd and unacceptable. My suggestion for Irene is to get real.

 

Finally to emphasize my point, I have a metallic cross from Rome which was blessed by the Archbishop of Milan. I also have a huge picture of the Sacred Heart in my room and a Palaspas on my door. Having these religious icons around me influences me to always be true to myself and to my external relationships. These are my honest points of view of the matter. Also before I end, let me globally say that I am also a 36-year old virgin with a similar look to Johnny Depp. Now do you believe that?!

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